Good Bye Soul Mate

Why are goodbyes so hard? Why must we meet people, cross paths and then move on? I feel at times it would be easier to just keep them close. But then, would I gain as must insight or take for granted what that the lesson was that I was suppose to learn during our interaction/s.

I know my Heavenly Father loves me dearly, but sometimes its just hard to listen and act upon his requests. I know the other end of the spectrum, if I do not listen and follow his words, the heartache in the end will be much worse then just the let go and say goodbye.

So with that, I must let go and say goodbye. I will pray for my special friend, who helped me grow in my independence and showed me I am capable of tons. Even though the path was hard at times, I gained so much more from the bigger picture that was all around me.


I was re-watching a great movie, and even better book, "Eat, Pray, and Love" by Elizabeth Gilbert.

When I herd this quote, I had to update my blog post because it was a perfect fit for my special friend, or do I say soul mate?

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

Like the quote says, living with a soul mate can be to painful but the rewards from living with your soul mate for a moment defiantly out weight the pain for maybe a life time. And yes, your soul mate does introduce you to your spiritual master. Because your spiritual master is the only one that can help bring you to your higher self.

Cheers to you my soul mate, thank for crossing my path. May you be blessed with all the love and light, a person can have.